Not all children are created equal

ok so I think I need to vent, get some good advise or just have a good cry... I am really not sure which! If you knew me growing up, you know that I was a very quiet, shy, introverted little one (ok so maybe I still am a bit, but trust me I have come a long way from going to school in my PJ's cause that was the only way to get me there) Well, I seem to have a child very much like myself. I laugh sometimes at how different our girls are. Noelle the social butterfly, extrovert, logical, never shy or afraid & then My Karly totally opposite, my intellect thinking about everything before it ever happens, quiet & reserved, thrives on complete structure. Looks like we have duplicated a little Jason & a little LeAnn ;) lol! Anyway. Why is it that people seem to think that every kid is wild, crazy & outgoing?! I am so sick & tired of having to explain to people, she is ok, she is just uncomfortable in chaos (and I try to say that in the nicest way possible). Its as though they think there is something wrong with her because she is behaved, not screaming, & acting like a monkey. I often want to ask, when was the last time you walked into a room where you didn't know anyone and just started running around & screaming with them-- I mean why do you expect my child to do something that no adult would do?! makes me crazy! I know that there are many children who love action & loudness but that is not all children, and there is NOTHING wrong with mine because she does not. If she is playing & your child comes over, pushes her out of the way & then starts being loud why do you think it is my child with the problem? HELLO! Ok I told you I had to vent! LOL! Guess I am having a mom moment. I have been in a couple situations now and I am starting to feel bothered by people's response to my child. I am so thankful for teachers, other moms & friends who understand and go out of their way to love my child. Understanding that not all kids are made the same. I am not saying that if your child is  a monkey there is anything wrong with them, there is not. I am just saying don't give me bad looks or make snide comments because my child does not act like yours. I often hear, "being a mom is hard", and I have decided that it is not the child that makes it hard, it is other people- what is hard is not wanting to slap the person making you feel like there is something wrong with your child. So incase you are wondering, I am in no mood to hear... "oh you stay at home with her, maybe you need to start a preschool program" or "Its probably because you are in the room"-- HA! Maybe next time I should tell the teacher, "Maybe it is because YOU are in the room. lol!" People kill me. OK so I need to get off my soapbox here before I go too far. I am just saying people, not everyone is created the same, that doesn't make them any less of a person, so BE NICE!